Assertiveness Skills For Management Leaders

(Leading People For Results)

 

 

 

 

Effective Communication is a combination of knowing WHAT to say, HOW to say and WHEN to say it. Individuals who have successfully combined these three skills succeed as leaders in business today. Those who do not, continue to struggle and become ineffective in their daily tasks.

 

Many leaders go in circles day in and day out with the same conversation with their colleagues, subordinates and bosses. Some leaders are too passive. They defer their views, withhold their feelings, suppress their rights and let others manipulate the discussion. Other leaders are too aggressive. They assume that only their views and feelings count. In both cases, the unproductive communication and relationship cycle with others is repeated again and again. When leaders are passive or aggressive, no new information is exchanged. No progress is made on the problem at hand. Assertiveness skills help the leader to break the pattern. It helps the leader to solve real problems rather than re-create old frustrations.

 

A leader has the responsibility to guide the direction of his or her company. A leader's assertiveness and confidence earns respect. With that respect, people are much more likely to follow, help and emulate their leader to achieve success. They gain respect from peers, loyalty of employees, support from upper management and increased effectiveness with customers.

 

Objectives

 

Upon completion of this programme, you will be able to:

·          Explain the importance of assertiveness skills for leaders

·          List down the proper steps to be taken in order to be an assertive leader

·          Demonstrate the tools and techniques of being assertive

·          Be results-driven and not activity-driven when managing and leading your people

·          Identify the rights and responsibilities of positive, powerful and assertive communication

·          Develop and use a personal communication strategy on-the-job that is based on psychological theory and the realities of workplace communications

·          Understand and avoid poor communication strategies and apply remedies to improve your communication at work

·          Be a better listener to your own needs and that of your team members and customers

·          Proactively handle conflict and difficult situations

 

Who Should Attend

 

·         Executives

·         Senior Executives

·         Assistant Managers

·         Managers

·          Senior Managers

 

Learning Outcome

 

At the end of this programme, you will have gained the following knowledge and learning:

·          Be able to communicate and relate effectively with others so that you will be able to solve real problems rather than re-create old frustrations.

·          You will minimise passive, defensive and aggressive reactions, which block true communication.

·          Your every communication engagement with others will be results-driven rather than activity-driven.

 

 


Programme Outline

 

Day 1

·          The new challenges confronting leaders

·          The Role of Communication and Assertiveness in Organisations

·          Why do leaders need assertiveness skills?

·          Effective communication skills for leaders

o         5 principles of communication

o         The practices of assertive communicators

o         5 principles to help you build the foundation of your assertiveness

·          What is assertive behavior? – Definition of assertiveness

o         The goals of assertive behaviour

o         Passive and Assertive behaviour

o         Results of assertive behavior – Personality style and assertiveness

o         The difference between passive, assertive and aggressive behavior

·          Patterns of defensiveness – FIGHT or FLIGHT

·          The GIVE and TAKE assertiveness model

o         The assumptions and the means

o         Appreciating others and Appreciating self – Knowing what you want

o         Vocal power – Powerful and powerless speech

o         Nonverbal assertiveness

·          The Advocacy model

·          Assertiveness and leadership styles

o         The directive style

o         The consultative style

o         The problem-solving style

o         The delegated style

·         The Systems Vs Competency approach

 

 

 

Day 2

·          Resolving conflict assertively – strategies and techniques

o         Conflict styles and strategies

o         Conflict archetypes

o         Conflict management styles grid

·          Getting from “NO” to “YES”

·          Giving and receiving criticism

·          The role of assertiveness in successful negotiations

o         Saying “YES” and “NO” assertively

o         Developing your ability to influence others

o         Basic negotiating tips 

o         Barriers to successful negotiation  

o         Preparation for negotiating

o         Some negotiation tips

·          Manager or leader?

o         Five essential traits of excellent leaders

o         Inspiring leadership

o         Five qualities of motivational leadership

·          Principles of defusing hostility

o         Dealing with poor performers

o         How to handle the poor performer?

o         Active listening and responsiveness

o         Assertive Listening

·          Assertive Conflict Resolution

o         4 step format for using “I” statement

o         Third party intervention

o         Identifying your own strengths – Overcoming Obstacles to Assertive Behavior

·          Setting goals that work – SMART goals

·          Support goals to achieve results

·          The leader as career coach

·          Personal “ASSERTIVENESS ACTION PLAN”

 

Training Facilitator

 

P. Krisnan Palanisamy, MMIM, MIM-CPT

Dip. In Accounting and Finance (ACCA),

Dip. In Education (UM), BSc (UM),

Masters in Business Administration (MIM-University of Bath)

 

Administrative Details

 

Fees:

MIM Member: RM1,300

Non-Member: RM1,600

 

Duration:

2 days

 

Time:

9:00 a.m. – 5:30 p.m.

 

Venue:

MIM Management House

Kuala Lumpur

 

 

PSMB Scheme:

  • SBL

 

CPD Hours:

  • 16

 

Recommended follow-on programmes:

 

·          Building Strong Management Skills

·          Developing Effective Managerial Skills

·          Effective Middle Management

·          Job of General Manager

·          Strategic Thinking, Planning and Implementation